Posted On
8/5/2019
5:52:20 AM
by
dipak kumar
dear Mr. friend,
i have read your blog and what i can see is you are blaming to your wife for loosing your friends,
first of all let me tell you my dear if they were your true friends they would have not left you alone also did you try to them to reconnect with them?? if not then try it maybe they will accept you again.
next i would like to tell you that try to convince your wife to understand you and your friend its normal that all the wife they don''t like husband friends, you have to make her understand that they are also part of your life and you have grown with them.
one last but not the least as long as your wife is keeping your family together you should not be worried about your friends or anyone else.
make sure you keep your wife & friends both happy and manage good life.
hope this post help you.
One of your friend
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Posted On
8/5/2019
6:57:37 AM
by
ed
ur wife doesn''t know your friends and she cant make any judgement on anyone and they do don''t your wife etc.. and who is she to complaint about them..just because she is your wife....and on what basis she can say that your friends are causing problems...to he... you must now choose between your friends and your wife...may be your friends have wifes too and they also say that you are cause of their problems.....life is strange...
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Posted On
8/5/2019
9:42:54 PM
by
Kishku
Indian culture and social practices calls for temperament and adjust somehow with your partner whatever issues you have to suffer throughout your life.
Western world and some far east Asian cultures allow you to get released and find other partners of your choice, without any society interference in your personnel matters.
Till India gets open up (not expected soon), the present generation have to undergo this mental tensions, Good luck.
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Posted On
8/5/2019
10:45:32 PM
by
Varghese
After my marriage same thing i got slowly cut off from my girl friends, then guy friends, then relatives as my wife says there should not be any one between hus and wife , i am left alone as when i need her or in a mood to go out she is at work or tired or sick with monthly sickness , end of the day i am left alone , bored and watching TV ....so i think this is every other man''s story in gulf ..... i have no complaints though cuz God has given a thousand fold blessings for which this life time will not suffice to be thankful.
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Posted On
8/5/2019
10:51:36 PM
by
Sikender bhakt
if we think deep , a woman leaves her parents , bro sis friends etc and gets married to a guy not knowing what is the future going to be and the guy is not leaving his parents or bro or sis or anyone , so if she expects a little from her husb i think it is legitimate and a kind and understanding guy should go with her and not fight ..... after all a woman also has the same feelings like a guy in matters of her family friends and relatives but she leaves all of them to be with her hub .
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Posted On
8/6/2019
12:54:32 AM
by
Name
Discuss the same with your wife instead of IIKians
you will get better solutions because wife knows everything
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Posted On
8/6/2019
1:46:36 AM
by
Lonely Man
Dear all who has commented and specially Dipak kumar,
u have relied beautifully. it is just that i feel so empty without talking to friends and having some time with them.
After all in this environment we all need some social time and life. Dont you think we are working earning and looking after the family and we need to have some time with our friends where we at least enjoy some moments. The world is not going to end because of that.
But she thinks my friends is my 1st wife and she is my second wife. thats all. When i see around all my friends have wives who adjust with their friends and invite them for a lunch or dinner and so on.
I was just trying to see if there are many people like me ...
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